HOSPITAL-DY PATIL- HELP NEEDED

I tried to help her. And all i got was public humiliation.

Just 15 days back, i was going with my wife when i saw this woman...and i had seen her many times earlier just roaming around aimlessly in my area. So i stopped and yes, my wife was with me...behen, are you in some problem? tamne koi problem che? ( i spoke in gujarati because just seeing the way she had draped her saree, i could make out out that she is a gujarati woman. My wife was in a rush...so she moved on.....i sat with this lady- aged about 50-55 years. She started crying like a baby....and said she has been thrown out of her house..her own kids have debarred her from her property etc..and left her on the road. I gave her my number...my address...and told her...and that please...don't worry. Maybe i can not help you directly but i will find ways to settle your issues. I am blessed with a lot of contacts, i said. Next day, i met Lady Inspector PSI Yenare- and related the case history to her. She, being a woman was more than willing to help. Said- bring that woman to the police station and we will do our best. Our area police station too, is headed by a woman- Sangeeta Alphonso, an awesome woman who is connected to many social initiatives. Ok, after a few days i saw this roaming lady again.....and i stopped her..with a tap on her shoulder. Behen, ( i spoke in gujarati) , i have spoken to some officials here...and if you are fine right now, we can go to Nerul police station, New Bombay.

ANTI CLIMAX: The lady glared at me....and started shouting and screaming loudly. Ghar pe maa behen nahi hai kya? She removed her chappal to hit me on my face. A crowd of almost 500-700 people in my area collected around. She was raining abuses on me. 1) Tune mere husband ka murder kiya. 2) Teri vajah se mera sagar darshan towers mein job gaya 3) Teri vajah se i am on the road.

Now, since the local sabjiwala, panwala etc know me.....they just intervened and just told me- to move ahead. Bhago yahan se......

It's only the next day, after speaking and meeting my local veggie guys, panwala, etc that i came to know that the woman is mentally imbalanced. And she has launched attacks on many people and humiliated many people ......

Yes, it is a fact..that i was too ashamed that night when this happened.

All because- all i wanted to do was help a little bit, in my way.

And this woman--------she humiliated me in a very very dirty way.....right in front of a 1000 people.

Hey.....but then......can't help it.

I can't stop stopping to help. In my little ways.

Jai hind. vande mataram.

She lost one 'BOOB'. And she lost her entire life, family and happiness.

What an awesome gift of god....to mankind. Don't we all males love em so much? But..think a little deeper....think like an 'enlightened soul' and you may see BOOBS as just two pieces of extra flesh hanging around from the chest of a female- of the  homosapiens  species.

This is the story of one of my friends', a close friend who i met 6 years back during a conference and later, we became quite good buddies.

Her life story was like a fairy tale. Her school time love.....which later blossomed into a professional relationship and which, amazingly turned into a lifelong bond. Of course, full Bollywood drama had happened- parents not liking the rishta. she being confined for some days. Later, she runs away. Comes back home after getting her marriage registered....etc etc.

With her husband working in one of the top MNCs, that too, as India head....she had nothing to worry.

So daily outings, weekend escapades, a vacation every 4 months.....and woah.

Two and half years into marriage, their first kid came in this world. And celebrations were simply the talk of the town.

Just as the baby was one and a half years old....something drastic happened. The entire screen...which was playing one of the best lovestories' of this world- crashed. shattered. scattered.

She was diagnosed with breast cancer.

The best of docs, medicines, hospitals.....in India as well as abroad.......but......nothing helped.

Till there was hope' for her....her husband was with her, and by her side. Slowly and gradually his attitude changed.

He simply couldn't stand the sight of her. Rather her, with just one BOOB. And he made that 'very very clear'.

He started being out of home for days at a stretch.

Got into heavy drinking.

Refused to even come close to his wife.

And finally- he even started bringing hi-society call girls at home. And he would ask her to sit there and 'watch' it.

While losing one breast was a 'painful' fact to live with, this behaviour of her husband left her 'dying' each day...from within.

What else- next? Depression. Suicidal tendencies. Horrible fights at home. Kid- always terrified.

Anyways.

Then the best thing happened. She got 'divorced'.

No, i am not writing a creative' literary story...so no twists and turns.

It is only to highlight one persons' travails. And anothers' perversion.

And every male's obsession.

Open letter. To: Maharashtra FDA commissioner. Confederation of Pharma companies. And Pharamcist association.

Just today's news.....where chemists have threatened to go on a strike again across Maharashtra. And again, the FDA body of Maharashtra threatening to impose MESMA and ESMA ....some laws which allows the Govt to declare the strike null and void.

The game or the war game has been going on for a long time now. As per Maharashtra govt laws, it is now mandatory to have a qualified pharmacist in each and every shop that dispenses prescription medicines.

However, it is proving to be a nightmare for many chemist shops across the state. Lack of enough pharmacists. And those who are available, are too keen to seek their piece of flesh. An impasse that has resulted into many chemists downing their shutters in the state.

I am coming to one wild idea' here. A collaborate model which ties in 3 stake-holders. The chemists. The pharmacists. And the pharma giants( manufacturers )

Taking a cue from remote surgery, where, we see how surgeries are being conducted via video conferencing and all, my simple suggestion is- why not implement or try out a video-conferencing model when it comes to pharmacists also?? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Remote_surgery

How it works.

Hypothetical scenario: There are 10 chemist shops in area X. All ten of them, partly funded by pharma companies also, install a video conferencing and networking module, wherein, one main chemist, will act as a SERVER CHEMIST where a PHARMACIST will be sitting and serving live.

Under this arrangement, one pharmacist sitting in one location, would be serving 9 other chemist shops, dispensing, and vetoing prescriptions, all via video conferencing.

This will enable ten shops to operate peacefully, with just spendings accrued on one PHARMACIST  instead of ten-pharmacists needed, as per law.

The point is simple: IF SURGERIES CAN HAPPEN VIA VIDEO CONFERENCING, WHY NOT DISPENSING MEDICINES??


Do share your views and feedback. And if you guys have any link, direct or indirect with FDA top brass, please pass it on.

Jai hind. 

And he said " You're so lucky, you have so many pussies." i blushed....

Nopes.....i know i'm a dirty minded guy...i know i do a lot of sunny leone cartoons....i still watch porn even after being married....yeah...i'm just normal....like you. Been a casanova sorts in early days....fallen in TRUE love 17 times....all one way though....and yes, 18th time i fell in love, i got married. BUT. still can;t forget this odd moment of my life. When this sardar gentleman enters my house....looks at so many cats and dogs all around...some lazing on the sofa, some snoring on the fridge, some simply there. Had met this guy regards to one NGO project....he has dedicated his life to saving' druggists...and knowing his cause, i just kinda volunteered to do some posters for him. AND- his first line, and here, in this last line of the blog, stunned me. And didn't know whether to laugh ...or burst out laughing. SO LUCKY YOU ARE, YOU HAVE SO MANY PUSSIES AT HOME.

From a Dog's life....to a royal life....

Buzo. That;s what he was named- when he walked into their home, as a puppy. The kid's favourite and a non-stop entertainer for the entire family. As he grew, naturally, he grew big. And the kids could handle him no more, the family couldn't spare time to take him for walks and well, they were just not able to do anything for him. A clear case of animal cruelty and inhumanness- altho- involantarily and unintentionally. A chance meeting with the owner, and kinda convinced him how it would be better-off giving it away and helping buzo find a new home. 2 full months- coaxing, counselling- convincing. And finally, yesterday, Buzo found a new home- not just a new home, but a new life. A life where he will run free, play with ducks and cats and splash by a pond......unimaginable, but true. Fizzah shah, one of bombay's biggest animal activist has adopted my society's Buzo. Vishal travels- he gave his vehicle not at commercial rates- but at cost-only basis. From New Bombay to Virar- all the way. Hoping praying and wishing...Buzo a great life ahead. Life rescued, life changed.

Why the world can't live without RAM.